How To Find The G-Spot
For women the height of sexual explorative arousal is the discovery and stimulation of the g-spot. If you haven't already heard about the mysterious g-spot then you're yet to have your sight restored. Women's genitals are complex indeed; there are so many feelings and sensations that can be triggered from different locations. And the g-spot is the one area that can bring about the most intense orgasms for a woman. But knowing that such an area exists is not even half the story, how to find the G-Spot is what boggles a lot of men and women.
The g-spot is an elusive pea shaped bulging on the inside of the upper vaginal wall; but for some women it can be located elsewhere. Regardless of where it is you should just remember that you will be able to feel a slight bulging around the vaginal wall. It is this area of the female anatomy that triggers extremely intense orgasms.
Finding the g-spot might be an explorative task for you but you will need your woman's approval. It's not like you have to ask her about it but you will be able to tell if she's comfortable with it. You must know that there are some women who might actually feel uncomfortable if you try to arouse the g-spot.
Start with steady foreplay. Foreplay is the intimate touching; kissing and fondling that makes you feel like having sex. Arouse your partner by kissing her and rubbing her in areas you know get her turned on. Arousal is important because you have to get the g-spot bulging out for you to be able to locate it. The g-spot is made up of nerve endings and small blood arteries. So stimulation increases the blood pressure that makes the g-spot area form a ridge.
Arousal and stimulation also result in the woman going wet in the vaginal area. The wetness of the vagina is a natural release to make any sexual penetration smooth. Once you feel her vagina go wet you should proceed to slowly insert your index or fore finger into the vagina. Then you can start gently rubbing the vaginal walls.
The g-spot won't be out there for you to easily find it; you will have to be in touch with your sense of touch to be able to find the elusive pea shape. Rub the walls gently and slowly. If she is wet enough you will find it easier than if she was dry. If you've been rubbing the area sufficiently what will happen is that you will be able to feel a ridge or bulging, now that's the g-spot.
Another way to be able to tell if you have found the g-spot is by observing your partners response to your touch. Observe the reactions from the moment you start kissing and touching her. By the time you start rubbing the vaginal walls you will instantly notice how she will start breathing heavily and moving her body ravenously. The moment you hit the spot she won't be able to control herself, she will scream if there is no one in the house.
When you're highly anxious and sexually excited you will find the exploration to be very exciting. Your every sexual encounter will always be one of discovering new feelings and sensations. And this is the right attitude to follow if you want to enjoy sexual encounters. This free and confident spirit is what you need to be able to find the g-spot. If you're insecure and sensitive about reaching into your woman's vaginal area with your fingers you will find it difficult.
One tip: don't be too anxious, relax.
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