Christian Intimacy For Unmarried Couples
For a lot of secular people out there the perception is that Christian lovers or Christians in loving relationships don't get intimate. Some people have further confused themselves by believing that sex is totally shameful for Christians and that they have to wait until marriage. No doubt this is true, but not totally. Christians in loving relationships can indulge in Christian intimacy without them having to break a single fragment of their religious doctrines.
Intimacy for Christians is on a highly emotional level. Whilst a lot of people think that Christians don't get intimate, they actually do. Emotions running free within us are very powerful. Once couples begin to share their innermost feelings with each other an emotional attachment grows; Christians get intimate this way. Christian lovers can express their love in deeply affectionate words that touch the other partner gently on the softest temples of the heart.
When people are intimate they can go to the extent of talking about their dreams. Talking about each other's ambitions brings our hopes and aspirations together in ways we can never explain. There is just something about expressing ones dreams that makes people get close. Dreams are perhaps our deepest and rarely shared secrets; so when someone exposes these dreams there is an intimacy that develops.
Discussing topics of trust; commitment and the long term vision of a relationship is another way for couples to be intimate with each other. Issues of commitment and trust call upon our emotions to be honest and true; these are the very things that induce intense intimacy.
Even though people think Christians can't get physically intimate they actually can. Christianity might place a ban on sexual relations before marriage but Christians themselves don't feel to betrayed like they think. Christians can become intimate without there being sexual contact.
One way is for partners to get really intimate is by touch, even though it can get risky if partners get too sexually aroused. But if the partners are married they can have sexual intercourse. Christian that aren't married can kiss tenderly to become intimate. The good thing about this is that it's not an infringement on Christian doctrines.
Holding hands is another way for Christians to get close. Simply holding hand allows blood flow energy to interact and enhance the pleasure of closeness. You can even rub the fore arm or each other's backs to further heighten the feeling.
If you're in a position where you can hold each other close you should do so. Slide your hands over each other's shoulders or around each other's backs. You can also repeat sweet nothings to each other and flirt whilst in cuddly positions.
Prayer and Bible reading can be another source of intimacy. Pray together whilst expressing your hopes and aspirations. On top of this you can also read each other Bible verses from the Songs Of Solomon as these verses are romantic and intimate. Bible verses about love and relationship will cement your intentions.
|
